widewaterwoman:

Yes,

stay forgiving and gentle, don’t lose sight of who u are, insist on growth as individuals, cook together and for each other, rub each other’s hands and feet regularly, make a point to engage in the other’s interests in some way (and be genuine about it), continue to exchange small tokens of love + appreciation on the regular (u know how u brought flowers for each other or made coffee or made something cute for them in the beginning when everything was fresh and cute? keep doing that), and consider communicating your goals and visions of the future with each other every so often. ask urself: how are u loving? let ur actions answer that question and let them reflect ur love and gratitude every day. love is more than a feeling, it’s a movement.